All of the regular readers and GaySocialites know that I’m generally unlucky in love.

I date a lot, but I am very non-committal.  Unlike most gay guys and lesbians, I don’t like to go on a single date that lasts for weeks, months and sometimes years.  I believe that’s why it seems that so many LGBT relationships end so early.

My preference is to date someone for several months before dating exclusively and frequent sleepovers won’t happen within the first year.  I even think it is okay for the person that I’m dating and I to see other people until we decide to commit.

This doesn’t always go over well.  I’ve been called a polygamist so many times that my friends call me a polygy-gay.

As I found myself single again, I’m turning to the experts on love to help me find my way.   Since I’m not a millionaire, Patti Stanger wants nothing to do with me.  Her right hand man, however, is willing to give some advice.

The season of “Millionaire Matchmaker” winds up next week, so to say good-bye, Destin Jude Pfaff is giving me love advice!

I’m very excited!  According to Destin’s bio on the Bravo website:

“Upon moving to Los Angeles to pursue a career in screenwriting and filmmaking, Destin stumbled into a position as Office Manager of the Millionaire’s Club through Craig’s List. Although he was not thrilled about running another company (something he found himself doing quite a bit), he and the Founder and President of Millionaire’s Club, Patti Stanger, instantly hit it off and under her instruction he soon discovered he had a knack for matchmaking. He has since become the most successful male matchmaker in Millionaire’s Club history. He is Stanger’s right hand man and now COO of the company. He handles advertising, sales, office management, public appearances, contract negotiations and much more for Stanger’s business and is also her full partner in numerous entertainment endeavors. [sic]“

Check back next week to find out what kind of advice Destin has for me!  We’ll also have a sneak peak of the “Millionaire Matchmaker” season finale and the reunion special.